tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192250275749910298.post2656564342771597369..comments2023-06-27T01:16:53.309+10:00Comments on OBNOXIOUS OWL: Take my advice...I don't use it anyway SPECIAL EDITION: Paranoia - we all get itObnoxious Owlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01925785178820217529noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192250275749910298.post-1367208307565563612010-09-24T21:51:55.200+10:002010-09-24T21:51:55.200+10:00Fi said "people assume the traits about you t...Fi said "people assume the traits about you that you say about others" <br />That would be true in a perfect world, but despite that comment, in my experience many people will listen to the nasty shit and then make assumptions about total strangers as if they know them, instead of making assumptions about the person bitching- if you get what I mean.<br />It can be frustrating because ironically if you ARE nice, it's even worse because they walk all over you and relish the power trip.<br />Bullies wouldn't have friends if that rule was always applicable.<br /><br />A lot of us have probably experienced having people unexpectedly turn on us or just hold malevolent and hateful feelings towards us (over some insecurity bullshit)- totally unprovoked and we have been oblivious to it.<br /><br />So it's not totally unavoidable, like owl said <br />sometimes people are just wankers, they are irrational and impossible to level with because they constantly play this game of mental gymnastics to protect their ego. <br />No matter how respectful you are to others a handful will find reasons to target you. You can't do anything but grow a hide or pity them. xGracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11271670200527315873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192250275749910298.post-8521072719696765172010-09-24T02:04:58.680+10:002010-09-24T02:04:58.680+10:00yeah, we totally assume that everyone has the same...yeah, we totally assume that everyone has the same thoughts that we do. So if we're a bitch...then we assume everyone else is and we then justify being a nasty little so and so.<br /><br />Also, some people are just wankers though. Lets be honest.Obnoxious Owlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01925785178820217529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192250275749910298.post-53067160839190063772010-09-24T02:00:34.096+10:002010-09-24T02:00:34.096+10:00In relation to the first one:
I do psych at uni an...In relation to the first one:<br />I do psych at uni and we're taught that if you say things about other people's traits, what you say about them is then thought by those that hear it to be a trait of your own.<br />So if you say nice things, people think nice things about you.<br />Be a bitch and people know you're a bitch. Psychologically and everythingfinoreply@blogger.com